I made a female face that I would like to upload to the nexus as a looksmenu preset, and maybe also a save preset. I have used face ripper to move my characters face to another save but thats all I have done so far.

Install f4SE and Looksmenu, with it you can save the preset.
I do not remember exactly where the option appears, but usually is f5 to save, and f9 to load. See in the main looksmenu screen.

It will  be saved in Data\F4SE\Plugins\F4EE\Presets with the name you choose.

Ah thank you for the info, I did try it and I guess some of my mods conflict with looks menu so that the preset tab doesnt show up, I know that this is a bug of some sorts, do you perhaps know how to save a face ripper preset?